Quick Update

I am writing to give you a quick update os to why I have not been doing any posting despite saying I would at the beginning of the year.

The fact of the matter is I have been struggling with perimenopause. I have been fortunate in the fact that I have not been experiencing the physical symptoms such as hot flushes, dryness or insomnia, mine have been more the mental issues of low mood, anxiety, feeling overwhelmed as well as my biggest issue of feeling like I cannot be bothered doing anything. 

I am not looking for sympathy I am just explaining why I have been and probably will continue to be rather erratic at posting. It is something every woman will experience and will have their own ways of dealing with it and I am dealing with it as best as I can. 

I will post when I feel like it as during the school holidays I am trying to go out to visit different places and I will try and write about them but there will not be regular posts such as menu plans or daily photos as I know that at the moment I cannot be consistent with doing those every week.

Thank you for your patience.

Deborah

Happy Homemaker Monday - week commencing 22nd January 2024

Another Monday, it only seems like 5 minutes since last week. January is flying by. I hope things start to slow down otherwise before you know it Christmas will be upon once more. It is my Stepmother-in-laws funeral on Thursday afternoon so it will be a busy day getting everything done in work by lunch time before attending the funeral in the afternoon. It is only a small quiet service which is why I am not taking the whole day off even though I knew I could. Emma will miss it as she is currently in Iceland with her boyfriend, Sam. I am a bit jealous as I would like to go there as well. She is in Reykjavik so safely away from the volcano.

This week we do not have an evening where we can all sit down for a meal together until Sunday so the meals listed might not apply to the rest of the family on different nights.

Menu plan

Monday-  Chicken stir fry

Tuesday- Braised beef with carrot and swede mash

Wednesday- Chicken Korma

Thursday - Chilli loaded wedges

Friday- Slimming World ready meal ( I am the only one home)

Saturday- Spaghetti Carbonara

Sunday- Roast dinner

From the camera

Last week I went on a school trip to Chester Zoo. It was the best visit I have had as I could get to see the animals and they seemed as interested in us as we were with them. I managed to take some photos of the animals so here are just a few.

On my to-do list

My main task for this week is to complete a quilt that I have been working on for a VERY long time. I have only worked on it when I went to quilting group once a month for two hours and it is an English paper pieced quilt and all hand sewn (except the quilting). I just have to sew the binding on which I hope to complete this week then that is my longest outstanding to do completed.

What I am reading / listening to.

The book club choice for this month is 'How to Kill your Family' by Bella Mackie. I am listening to that as I have found that as I have not chosen those books and I have the time constraint that listening to them whilst I am driving to and from work is the most efficient way of completing the book. It has also been the only way I would have completed some of the previous choices. I am however, enjoying this book.' I am reading 'Agatha Raisin, Pushing up Daisies' by M.C Beaton. I have read most of the Agatha Raisin books and just have a few left. It is an easy and enjoyable read for when you don't want something to complicated.

Hope you all have a good week and are managing to find a little time for yourselves.

Deborah

Project 365 15th - 21st January 2024

 Another week has flown by and my goodness hasn't it been cold. I will admit I would much rather have the cold and sunny weather than the damp and mild conditions we are due to get over the upcoming week. 

This week has been about finishing things that should have been done a long time ago and I am pleased with what I have achieved. I only have a couple more things to cross off the list which I am hoping to do by the end of the month.

So now for a photo everyday

I was lucky enough to go with the Year 4's to Chester Zoo on Monday. They have moved the Red Pandas which are my favourite animal so I was very happy when they were out, active and I was able to get this photo.

Woke up to snow on Tuesday. Thankfully there was not a lot of it and I felt safe to drive to work. I am just about within the distance I would be willing to walk if I needed to if the school had remained open and I needed to be in.

Completed my first long standing to do on Wednesday, a journal of our holiday in Colorado in 2022. I had done a lot of it but still had some photos that needed to be printed out and spreads of a couple of days. It brought back some wonderful memories whilst I was working on it.

Thursday and another to-do crossed off- hanging this frame with vintage greetings cards in. It was originally held up with the command strips but one day it just fell down. The glass broke but the frame remained intact. Unfortunately I wasn't able to find the same frame so I have put the cards in plastic wallets to protect them.

These photos were from when we when to Orlando last Easter. I uploaded them to get them printed on Tuesday and was most surprised when they arrived in the post today as the website said 5-7 days. I then had to spend about an hour on Friday putting them in the album and deciding which ones would not go in as there were only 200 slots and I had 247 photos.

Decided to make some banana bread on Saturday as I had some bananas that needed to be used up and I felt like baking.

Sunday and the final item this week crossed off my to-do list which was finish this dress. I had to insert the zip and sleeves and do the hem. I had started it last June and just never got round to finishing. My dressmaking skills are a little rusty and I doubt I will wear this dress outside, not my finest effort. I am also not sure whether I like it or not. 

Books I have read in 2023

 I managed the grand total of 27 books in 2023 which probably is not a lot by some people's standards but working full time, crafting, housework, family and the W.I. means that I am kept busy for most of the time. 

I am not going to go into detail for every book as that would just take far too long but I will do a little about my favourite books of the year. I don't have a specific genre or author that I like to read, I tend to make my decisions on whether other people have enjoyed it, the cover or the blurb. Some of these books I would not have chosen myself as they are the book club choices that I go to once a month. 

So here is the list, let me know if you have read any of them and what you thought. They are separated into books I enjoyed but would not read again, books I did not like and books I loved.

Books I enjoyed reading.

    

          

    

     

   

   

  

  

Books I did not enjoy

Although I liked the overall story I could not stand Tom Ripley. Apparently the film is supposed to be a lot better than the book. 

I just found the descriptive writing was too much for me. I could see why it was once on the English Literature O'level syllabus.

Who could have thought you could go wrong with Agatha Christie? Apparently you can and this book is in the top 100 worst books ever written list and I can see why. (I did not know this before I chose it)

Books I loved

It was the mention of the self cleaning house that hooked me when I was reading the blurb. I love the fact it is not a young woman who is the lead character but a single mum with a teenage daughter who did not even know she was a witch as her powers had been kept from her to protect her. I am looking forward to reading the rest of the series this year.

The Tudors are one of my favourite periods in history to read about. Obviously this is fiction but is was interesting to read a book based on a real character and some real events.

This has become one of my all time favourite books. The blurb  and any description I could give does not do it justice. How the author came up with upper class Victorian ladies who are actually pirates but have flying houses instead of  ships and the male lead being hired to either kill, kidnap or protect the main female lead depending on who hired him is totally remarkable. I laughed out loud at some of the incredulous lines and speeches made. Totally bonkers but brilliant. I am definitely going to be reading the other books by this author.

   

    

   

        

Happy Homemaker Monday -week commencing 15th January 2024

 

Another week has gone by so quickly and it has been fun settling in to writing blog posts and coming up with ideas for future posts. I am also getting used to sticking to my to do list and so far things have gone well and everything has been done. I have enjoyed crossing things off my list. 

So here we go for this week.

TO-DO

- Finish dress

- Go through wardrobe and sort out

- Wash pet bedding and go through her old toys and put into new box

- De-clutter things under the bed.

What I am looking forward to.

I am going on a school trip to Chester Zoo on Monday and thankfully it is not going to rain, just freezing cold. Emma is going to Iceland next weekend and I am a bit jealous that I am not going as well, but I know she will have a fantastic time. Craig is out every night this week so I am looking forward to watching what I want on TV and being able to have the light on so I can knit whilst watching.

On the menu

Monday- YOYO (You're on your own) as I will be back late from the zoo.

Tuesday - Meatzza ( a giant burger with pizza sauce and toppings on top)

Wednesday - Enchiladas

Thursday - Shrimp and pasta

Friday - Chicken stir fry

Saturday - Fish pie

Sunday -Jambalaya.

What I am reading

The book club choice for this month is 'How to Kill your Family by Bella Mackie. My own choice for this month is Agatha Raisin- Pushing up Daisies by M.C Beaton. I want to try and read more non-fiction books so this month is Atomic Habits by James Clear. My target for this year is 36 books (3 a month). I read 27 last year so hope to better it this year.

Wishing you all a good week.

Project 365 8th -13th January

 I am trying again to do the Project 365 where you take a photo a day. I decided to try again after doing the 1sec a day in December where you record a 1 second video to highlight your day. My life is not always the most interesting especially during the week when I am working and it is winter but  here we go for the first week.

I finally got my car back after it had been in the garage for over a week. Luckily it was still under warranty so it did not cost me anything.

I found these in TK Maxx and absolutely adore them. They are just so moorish. I will need to find a regular supply of them now.

We are going away in the February half term and are flying with Ryanair. When we looked at the size of the luggage we were allowed to take as we are not putting any in the hold I realised we did not have any of the right size so I found these in B & Mn which are the right size. I am now going to have fun trying to fit everything in.

Craig in his morning dog walking attire. He takes her for a walk in the morning before we go to work, unless she wakes me up wanting me to take her.

My new tumble dryer has been delivered and put into place. It is a lot quieter than my old one so Matthew shouldn't complain about it waking him up as his room is directly above the garage.

Due to all the bad weather we have had, Matthew has not had a chance to try out his new pizza oven until this weekend. He did a good job making everything from scratch, including the base and sauce. 

I am hoping that things get a little more interesting as we go.

Week commencing 8th January 2024

 

It is hard to believe we are already a week into 2024 and I am back doing menu planning and household planning. This is all in an effort to get organised and stay on top of things. Having a written list of things to do helps me stay motivated as I get great pleasure it ticking them off and seeing how much I have accomplished.

So for this week

To Do

I am out Monday, Tuesday and Friday evenings so the list can not be as long as I would normally do if I was staying home in the evening and this is on top of my weekly cleaning.

-Wash all curtains downstairs (as the curtains are so wide and long they can only be done one curtain at a time)

- Declutter bedroom chest of drawers

- Make a note of due dates for insurances, MOT's etc

In my craft basket

I have 3 projects that I am determined to finish this month. The first is an EPP quilt that I have been making in my quilting group for many years. The top is now finished and I just have the quilting and binding to do. 

The second is a jumper I have been knitting. I an definitely a novice when it comes to knitting and reading patterns and I had put this down for a several months after I made a mistake that I could not figure out how. I eventually got to show the pattern and the piece to my Mum who figured out where I had made the mistake so I ended up undoing the piece and starting again.

The final project is a dress that I started last summer then somehow lost interest in (as I did a lot last year). 

I want to get these three completed so that I can concentrate on starting some new projects next month.

On the menu

As the weather has turned colder this week I have decided to make some comfort food recipes whilst sticking to Slimming World (for the majority of the time)

Monday - Beef and black bean chilli

Tuesday - Mac and Cheese Taco Bake

Wednesday- Don-Air Kebab ( a Slimming World recipe for Donner Kebab)

Thursday- Toasties

Friday - Lentil and Bacon Stew

Saturday - Curried Mince beef

Sunday - Cola Chicken

Looking forward to..

The first W.I. and Book Club meetings of the year. There is a speaker from The Christie Hospital at the W.I. meeting and we will be celebrating our 9th birthday. The book I have read for the book club was 'Lessons in Chemistry' by Bonnie Garmuss which I really enjoyed reading even if it wasn't quite as much about cooking as I was expecting. I have also got the TV series with Brie Larson to watch.

I hope you all have a good week.

Deborah