Thursday, February 10, 2022

Word of the Week- Insomnia

 



I tend to sleep quite well normally but this week I have really struggled with sleep. I am up at 5.00am during the week so I aim to go to bed no later than 10.00pm. This week however, I have not done that. Craig has been out every evening and I have had been staying up later as I find it difficult to sleep if someone is out of the house at bedtime. I have been working on a cross stitch and wanting to work to a certain point each night or going to craft club. I have also been waking up earlier as well. I have tried using some sleep remedies such as pillow sprays and creams but they haven’t helped me to stay asleep.

I feel as though I have been suffering from jetlag. I am glad that my exam was last week as I have struggled to stay focused at work and I have definitely had brain fog on Wednesday. I am also finding it impossible to motivate myself to do any housework other than the basics. No doubt I will have to catch up this weekend.

I am purposely doing nothing this evening and knowing that I don’t have to get up in the morning hopefully means that I can relax and sleep more and even if I wake up then I don’t necessarily have to get up early.

I have not taken to having any extra caffeine as I don’t want to exacerbate the problem, but I have noticed that I have eaten more sugary based foods. I am trying to drink more water instead which I am finding is helping. (I must remember to do the same when I come back off my holiday later in the year.)

If you have difficulty sleeping what do you do?

Linking up with Anne to see how everybody else's week has gone.



Tuesday, February 8, 2022

Frobly-Mobly and other fun words

Whilst scrolling through Pinterest the other day a word and definition popped up that I have never heard before but I think is wonderful and I am going to incorporate it into my everyday life. The word was Frobly-Mobly. It is the response you give when someone asks you how you are and it basically means OK. I think that it is a fun answer rather than using the standard and boring response of ‘OK’ or ‘Fine’.

I then became curious to see what other words are out there that people could use to liven conversations up and bamboozle or discombobulate people and this is what I found. 

Fudgel -pretending to work when you are not actually doing anything.                                                                   ( I think most people have been guilty of this)

 Dysania -the state of finding it hard to get out of bed in the morning.

 Ultracrepidarian -a person who criticizes, judges or gives advice outside of their area of expertise

 Twattling- a conversation or reports about other people, typically involving details which are not confirmed as true.

 Groke -to stare at someone while they are eating in the hope that they will share.                                                 (The dog is very good at this 😊)

 Slugabed -a person who stays in bed past the usual or proper time to get up.                                                           (Most teenagers at weekends and during the school holidays)

 Shivviness-the uncomfortable feeling of wearing new underwear.

 Blatherskite – a person who talks at great length.

 Balter -to dance gracelessly without particular art or skill but sometimes with enjoyment.                                   (Aka Dad dancing.)

Crapulence -sick feeling after eating or drinking too much.

Wamble -stomach rumble

Cockalurum -a self important little man.

Tidsoptimist – a person who is always late because they believe they have more time than they do.                                 (Definitely Craig.)

Lanspresado – the one who always shows up with no money.                                                                                            (I think we all know someone this applies to.)

 

Are there any other words that you know that you use that make other people look at you strangely?

Friday, February 4, 2022

Word of the Week -Birthdays

 


This week is bookended by birthdays. Last Saturday was my Mother in Laws birthday and we had most of  the family around for pizza from Costco. We weren’t able to celebrate her 70th birthday last year due to lockdown so that was why we decided to have everyone around this year. The family all chipped in and bought her a necklace and matching bracelet as a gift. I don’t know about you but generally it gets more difficult to buy for people as they get older.

 On Monday it was one of my brother in law’s birthday (I have 6 in total). He and his family live in Blackpool, so cards had been sent and messages were posted on Whatsapp. We will be seeing him this weekend however when they come over to celebrate another brother in laws 50th birthday. We are going out as a family to celebrate at a local Indian restaurant tomorrow. We have all clubbed together to get him a voucher for a tattoo. I know he will be happy with that as he had mentioned getting another tattoo and the one he wanted was quite big so no doubt quite expensive.

 Craig and I took him out last night on his actual birthday to Tampopo. He wanted some advice on getting a new phone so we went with him to get a new one and then went on to eat. My brother-in-law is not a big fan anymore of big parties which is why we are having a family meal instead. His children did not have anything planned for the day and we felt that even though we were celebrating on Saturday we had to do something on the day. The staff at Tampopo brought over a chocolate dessert and sang Happy Birthday to him when they found out. He reveled in the attention. I on the other hand would have gone bright red with embarrassment.

Linking up with Anne at Raisie Bay as usual.

Wishing you all a good weekend.

Deborah

Tuesday, February 1, 2022

What I have been doing in January.

January is normally a time to hibernate and recover from the madness of Christmas. I always thought I did very little and wasted a lot of time so this year I decided to record what I actually do when I am not in work this year. I was pleasantly surprised but I do not know if this would be typical of what I get done or maybe I was more determined as I knew I was making a note of everything.

I am going to do this type of post at the beginning of every new month as a record of achievement so that I can look back and think 'Didn't I / I did not do a lot that month,

 Reading

The Last Letter from Your Lover- Jojo Moyes.

I have to admit this is not a book I would have chosen myself. It was the book club choice.

 The Blurb- When journalist Ellie looks through her newspaper’s archives for a story, she doesn’t think she’ll find anything of interest. Instead she discovers a letter from 1960, written by a man asking his lover to leave her husband – and Ellie is caught up in the intrigue of a past love affair. Despite, or perhaps because of her own romantic entanglements with a married man.

In 1960, Jennifer wakes up in hospital after a car accident. She can’t remember anything – her husband, her friends, who she used to be. And then, when she returns home, she uncovers a hidden letter, and begins to remember the lover she was willing to risk everything for.

Ellie and Jennifer’s stories of passion, adultery and loss are wound together in this richly emotive novel – interspersed with real ‘last letters’. 

I only persevered with this book because it was the book club choice. It was a predictable storyline in both time periods with no unexpected twists. I did like Jennifer and would have liked her wardrobe but not her life. It was the 1960’s when divorce was still taboo and wives were expected to keep quiet and let their husbands do what they wanted.

 Vanish- Tess Gerritson

The Blurb -Forensic Pathologist Maura Isles unzips a body bag and gets the fright of her life. The corpse opens its eyes. The woman is rushed to hospital, where she murders a guard and seizes hostages, including a heavily pregnant Detective Jane Rizzoli. No one knows who this woman is, or what she wants. Only Jane, trapped with the madwoman, can solve the mystery.

 I used to enjoy watching Rizzoli and Isles which was based on these books. I have read some other books in this series a few years ago so when a friend gave me her copy to use in crafting I decided to read it instead.

 The blurb does not give anything away about the main storyline which is the trafficking of young Russian girls for sex and the attempted cover up of the murders of 5 of them. I devoured this book very quickly as I couldn’t put it down. I had to know what was going to happen next.

Watching

 Around the World in 80 days

I adore David Tennant so will watch anything he is in (apart from the American version of Broadchurch) so was looking forward to this adaptation of the story.

I like the way Phileas’ character became less self-centred as the story went on and he treated Passepartout and Abigail with more respect. He would have been brought up to expect to be treated as more superior than both of them and that was how he came across at first but his attitude changed as they continued their adventures. The acting from all of the cast was superb and you were drawn into their adventures and willed them on. The only negative thing I can say about it was how did Phileas manage to have so many outfit changes and look so clean and well dressed despite everything they had been through. In reality they all would have looked rather bedraggled and dirty.

A Very British Scandal

I watched this because I was intrigued by the story of the scandal. Divorce in the 1960’s as previously mentioned was a taboo subject so for the aristocracy to have such a high profile divorce was definitely seen as scandalous.

Both characters had their flaws which ultimately caused the end of their marriage. I did feel more sympathy towards Margaret though despite what she did. I would have been wary of a man who had been married twice before even if I was divorced myself. Would Ian have divorced her if the money hadn’t run out or would he have turned a blind eye to her affairs to keep the money.

You can see parallels with Jennifer’s story from The Last Letter from Your Lover with regards to the fact they both had affairs due to neglect even though their natures were very different.

 Ron’s Gone Wrong  (Disney +)

This was the choice of the kids on the now rare evenings we are all together in the evening at a weekend. I will admit I didn’t really relish watching it initially but it was actually okay. 

It is an animated adventure about a boy named Barney who receives a "defective" robot named Ron as a birthday present. He is the last one in his class to get one of these ‘friendship’ robots that are supposed to connect people together. However, Ron did not get the correct coding uploaded so Barney and Ron write their own code about friendship that makes Ron one of a kind. The movie looks at the proliferation of technology, social media, and screen time among tweens and teens and how things can quickly get out of hand when the wrong thing is posted. The movie emphasises the importance of real-life friendships rather than screen friends, and accepting and being kind to everybody which is good message to put across.

 Emily in Paris- Season 2

Light hearted story perfect for times when you want to be entertained and not have to think too much. Emily’s outfits are outrageous and clash in patterns rather too much for my taste. I do like the way Sylvie dresses though.  Paris is beautiful and makes me want to go back and explore more than I had the chance to do last time I went.

 Making

I was definitely in a crafting mood this month and did the projects below. The blanket has been a long term on-going project that I was determined to finish this month.

                                                                Needle felted red panda 

I need more practice doing faces as this looks more like a teddy bear than a red panda.

                                                                        Circle skirt



                                                                Courthouse steps blanket

This has been a long term project that I started in October 2020. I didn't work constantly on it but did it alongside other projects. ( Can you spot the mistake?)

                                                    Cards and Flower frame (WI craft groups)


Both need sentiments adding to complete for which I will use my Cricut Machine.

What else

Another thing I wanted to do more of this year was walking/hiking. This month I went out three times with Craig, Penny and friends/family. The first was the National Trust land around Alderley Edge in Cheshire. This wasn’t a long walk but there were some ‘hairy’ moments scrambling up or down slopes which were a bit slippy.

Craig and Penny looking over the Edge.

The second was Peel Tower/Holcombe Moor near Ramsbottom near Bury. It was a very blustery walk across the moor and I definitely needed my walking boots.

My final walk was Rivington near Bolton. We didn’t walk up to the Pike but we did go around the gardens.

As the weather had been rather overcast for all three walks I didn’t take any photos as the light wasn’t brilliant and would not have done justice to the scenery. I hope that there will be photos for future walks.

 

How have you kept busy over January or have you just relaxed?

 

 

 

 

 

Monday, January 31, 2022

Happy Homemaker / Menu planning Monday 31st January

 


I have still been menu planning even if I haven’t been posting it on the blog. The main reason is because I have been using the click and collect service from my local supermarket. I am not a great fan of food shopping so the less time I can spend on it the better 😊. Unfortunately, I have been finding that there have been too many unsuitable substitutions lately so I am thinking of going back to doing my own shopping so I can make my own substitutions to make things work.

 Menu plan

 Mon- Beef burgers                                         

Tues- Chicken curry                                        

Weds- Veggie Quesadillas                                                           

Thurs- Spaghetti Bolognese                                        

Fri- Cajun Salmon & Salsa                                             

Sat- Indian ( to celebrate my Brother in Law’s 50th birthday)

Sun- Roast Dinner or Pizza (depending on whether we got out hiking)


The Weather

It is currently bright and sunny. We managed to escape the worst of the storm yesterday unlike other parts of the country. Where we live is pretty sheltered so we don’t seem to get the extremes that other parts of the country experience.


To Do

A pretty quiet week as I am up to date with most things. However I do need to;

  • ·     Tidy my bedroom drawers
  • ·      Assemble the new lights for Matthew’s room
  • ·      Remind Craig about booking the services for the boiler and my car (I don’t have the account log in details to be able to do them myself despite asking Craig for them- he forgets to send them because he has to look them up)

I am linking up with Karen at Cats, Kids, Chaos and Sandra at Diary of a Stay at Home Mom to see what other people are up to.


Have a good week everyone. 


L

Thursday, January 27, 2022

Word of the Week- Trepidation



After the last few years it is with some trepidation that I have been making plans for 2022.  With everything that has happened over the last two years it has felt like making plans for the year has been impossible. Now I am hoping that we are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel and things can happen without any extra hassle.

This week we have booked a holiday to Colorado to see friends that should have happened in 2020. We are going in July once Matthew has finished his GCSE’s, before the main school holidays. We will be there for Independence Day so that should be interesting. Last time we were there it was for Thanksgiving and we had a fantastic time.

There are a few films that I am looking forward to seeing at the cinema with the second Downton Abbey film at the top of the list. I have told Craig that for my birthday I want to go to Highclere Castle instead of having a present. It will involve staying over and will be without the kids as neither of them are interested in Downton (Craig isn’t but he doesn’t have a choice 😊).

To make up for going away without them we will be going to the Harry Potter studio tour at Halloween. We haven’t been since Gringotts opened and Craig hasn’t seen Platform 9 ¾ or the Forbidden Forest.

Craig and I are also going to spend a weekend in March at Lytham St Annes for the first Masonic Ladies Evening since 2019.

Those are the things that we have definite plans for. There will also be other days out over the year as I would like to go back to Chatsworth, visit Blist’s Hill Museum, lots of walks out for the day, visit friends in Oxford and maybe a long weekend in Ireland to see friends there.

Emma has her own travel plans including trips to Jersey and New York as well as tagging along with us. Her dream of being able to travel is hopefully going to become a reality after two years of delays.

 


I am linking up with Anne and seeing what everyone else is thinking and doing. 

Tuesday, January 25, 2022

Apologies and a Catch up

 I am sorry for my lack of posts this year but I have been in a bit of a ‘funk’ for a couple of months with regards to blogging and to be honest I am not entirely sure that I am fully out of it. I just feel that I have nothing to say that would be of interest to anyone. The December posts had been written and scheduled and I had fully intended on participating in Blogmas. I even had the titles of the all the posts prepared but then I just lost my mojo to complete them. It wasn’t as if I had the excuse that I was too busy, not much more than normal, hence the’ radio silence’ for this time.

Christmas and New Year were lovely, we spent time with both families and I wasn’t in work between Christmas and New Year. It was so nice to be able to celebrate with family and friends unlike last year when we were on our own.

I did some crafting in December but they were only little projects that only took a few hours but they satisfied my ‘need’ to create. I find that if I don’t do anything crafty for a few days then I feel a bit antsy.

 





                                                            

 

Needle felting the gnomes was fun and I can highly recommend it as a stress reliever. Stabbing the wool into the shapes is extremely satisfying and helps get rid of any frustration you may be feeling especially at that time of year. 

I didn’t take any photos as I rarely picked up my phone or camera. Sometimes you just have to live in the moment rather than record for posterity.

One picture I did take was of Christmas Zippy. He used to be at the centrepiece of Manchester Town Hall’s Christmas decorations but as the Town Hall is currently under renovation I wondered what had happened to him. I found out- he is now outside the Kelloggs factory lighting up the area. I am so glad, I hated to think of him being stuck in the dark in some storage area.

 

I hope you all had a Merry Christmas and are looking forward to whatever 2022 will bring.